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Are Fit Kids Better Learners?

September 27, 2014 by Kelley Leave a Comment

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photo credit: KWDesigns via photopin cc

We’ve all been told that a good night’s sleep and a balanced breakfast are essential for making sure our kids are ready to learn on school mornings. But did you know that 10 jumping jacks might help jump-start their brains, too?

Two recent studies build on a growing body of research showing a strong link between heart-pumping activity and increased learning potential in kids. In brain scans of 9- and 10-year-olds, University of Illinois neurologists discovered that fitter kids had healthier “white matter”—which is related to more efficient neural activity— in their brains than less-fit children. Michigan State researchers, meanwhile, have found that a bout of physical activity before school helped kids be more attentive and perform better in math and reading skills.

This probably doesn’t come as a surprise to many childhood education specialists: Preschoolers and kindergarteners often start the day outside or with some sort of movement activity, because children seem better able to cope with circle time once they’ve gotten their energy out on the playground. But as kids age and curriculum demands grow, they typically move from bed to bus to desk chairs, where they’re expected to log an hour or more of quiet work until recess or P.E. Given the recent findings, this shift seems pretty arbitrary—and possibly counterproductive. Older kids clearly benefit from “shaking their sillies out,” too.

Many schools have already come to this conclusion. More than 1,000 schools across the U.S. have adopted the BOKS (Build Our Kids’ Success) program. Launched by mom Kathleen Tullie in 2009, it helps communities set up volunteer-led, before-school fitness games, like relay races and obstacle courses. In many towns, it’s allowed schools to make up for P.E. time lost due to budget cuts or academic curriculum constraints. (According to the National Association for Sport and Physical Education, most elementary school students receive only between 33 and 66 percent of the recommended 150 minutes of P.E. classes per week.)

Photo credit: The Playground Project

The Peter Woodbury School Playground. Photo credit: The Playground Project

Other schools offer physical activity before school to accommodate kids who need to be dropped early due to bus or parents’ schedules; and what starts out as a logistical necessity winds up benefitting kids. At the Peter Woodbury Elementary School in New Hampshire, kids are dropped off early, at 7:30 a.m., so the buses can leave to pick up middle schoolers. Because the building isn’t yet open to students, all grades start the day on a playground that’s uniquely designed with nature in mind. “There are 400-some kids out there playing all sorts of ball and adventure games before sitting down to learn, and all are having a blast,” says HHK adviser Curt Hinson, Ph.D, who’s observed the school while touring the country as a recess and P.E. consultant.

The only problem: If you’re like me, the thought of fitting an extra activity into the morning routine is mildly panic-inducing. Every last minute is packed—with breakfast making, shoe finding, shoe re-tying, and nagging, nagging, and more nagging. And yet, I know my high-energy boys would benefit from running-around time before school begins. Their school does open the gym and provide supervision in the hour before school to accommodate early-working parents. I think I’ll try to take advantage of that at least once a week, particularly as the weather gets colder and there are fewer opportunities throughout the day to get the kids outside.

I’ve researched some other ideas to help kids get moving more, both before and during school hours. Here are a few:

1. Take 10 minutes for tag at home. Tag requires no equipment, special skills, or prep time, and can be done practically anywhere. Although it may seem daunting, most of us could probably manage to build 10 extra minutes into our mornings to provide some tag time before or after breakfast—by setting the alarm a bit earlier, and packing lunches, and laying out clothes, shoes, and backpacks the night before. Try this variation if the same-old gets boring. (Older kids might be more game for a mini-jog around the neighborhood with you.)

2. Set up before-school playdates. Even if your school doesn’t have an early morning drop-off program, they may allow kids to play on the playground or in the gym as long as they’re supervised. (Be sure you check with the school beforehand.) Link up with a couple like-minded parents (who can also drive or walk their kids from time to time), and arrive on the early side for a 10-15 minute game of basketball or kickball before the bell rings. For more ideas, check out the BOKS website.

3. Talk to teachers about giving your child’s class “brain breaks.” Many schools already encourage this: stopping lessons in the middle to have children get up from their desks and stretch, do jumping jacks, or even dance for a couple minutes. To give the teacher ideas—and collect a few yourself to use during long homework stretches—check out the Scholastic book, Brain Breaks for the Classroom: Quick and Easy Breathing and Movement Exercises That Help Students Reenergize, Refocus, and Boost Brain Power Anytime of the Day.

4. Learn why you, too, may be clearer headed after that morning game of tag (or a jog or a Soulcycle class.) Read John J. Ratey’s Spark, which digs deep into the latest findings on the exercise-brain connection, in both kids and grown-ups.

 

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Coaching Your Kid’s Sports Team

September 4, 2014 by Kelley 1 Comment

If your child plays a sport, you or your spouse has probably coached, or at least considered coaching, his or her team. More than 85 percent of youth league coaches are moms or dads of players—because town coffers don’t typically support coaching salaries, but also because it seems, to a lot of us, like a really nice thing: time with your kid, doing something fun, active, and common-goal-oriented.

photo credit: D.Clow - Maryland via photopin cc

photo credit: D.Clow – Maryland via photopin cc

If only it were that simple. Coaching your own child has many obvious rewards, but some real challenges, too. Separating yourself from your everyday parent role to treat your child like “any other player” is easier said than done, and kids can sniff out the struggle. While the common assumption is that a parent coach may favor his child, interviews of youth soccer players by researchers at the University of Virginia and elsewhere reveal that kids of coaching parents often feel pressure and higher expectations, and a sense of being subject to a disproportionate amount of criticism. And no one likes being picked on by a coach, particularly one you have to sit down to dinner with later that evening.

Obviously, becoming your child’s youth team coach requires more than a basic knowledge about the sport. It necessitates some introspection to understand your own motivations to become a coach, as well as your child’s—and his teammates’—personality and learning style. For advice on this sticky topic, I turned to my friend Sara Whalen Hess, Psy.D., who’s also a World-Cup-gold-medal-winning former professional soccer player, and now a licensed clinical psychologist and mom of three. (Check out her practice’s website, here.) Dr. Hess started coaching her oldest son’s youth league soccer team when he was 4, and has continued to coach his team every year (he’s now 8). As a former elite athlete, practicing psychologist, and parent, she’s uniquely qualified to provide some advice for making a parent coaching experience a positive one. Here are some of her take-to-the-field tips.

1. Fight the urge to coach and instruct your own child all game long. The only way for a child to learn to play is through trying and failing—that’s a natural process for any athlete, says Dr. Hess: “Kids are so desperate to please their parents in general, but it’s important that children don’t feel like they need to impress us. My goal with my son was that he had fun, because if he’s having fun, he will want to work hard, and that’s how he will get better. As corny as that sounds, it’s absolutely true.”

2. If your child or his teammate is struggling, focus on the positive. Kids respond really well when they think you think they can be successful, Dr. Hess says. One of her favorite pieces of advice for parent clients in her practice—“catch your child being good”—works nicely for coaching, too. Be on the watch for a genuinely savvy move or team-building behavior from a lesser star, and give her effusive props for it when it occurs. “Kids who are a bit slower to catch on need more positive reinforcement to be motivated,” she notes.

3. Don’t neglect a successful player (yours or another’s). It’s tempting to leave a good player to his own devices while you tend to the child who’s studying the clover in right field. But your job as coach is to help your child and all of his teammates grow, regardless of where they fall on the skill chart. “Sometimes I will tell my son to use his left foot more, or try a certain, difficult skill during a game,” Dr. Hess says. “There’s a challenge out there for everyone, but it might not be the same for everybody.”

4. Early on, pay attention to the way different kids respond to different motivational techniques. Style doesn’t need to change based on skill level—however, it may need to change based on personality, Dr. Hess says. “There are always kids who need more direct feedback, and some who need a softer approach. I always get to know my players really well, so I can identify with them and know what they need to have fun and work hard.”

5. After the game, put your parenting hat back on. Postgame talks can be tricky for everyone, Dr. Hess notes, but particularly if you’ve played a role in your child’s win or loss. Try not to brood about your own coaching performance, or your child’s play that day. If the game was a tough one, focus on dialogue more than commentary. “Rule of thumb when you don’t know what to say to a kid: Find out what they’re thinking,” says Dr. Hess. “Ask them how they feel, if they had fun, what were the best or most difficult parts. And based on the research of (Stanford psychologist) Carol Dweck, always put the focus on effort and work put in, rather than stats. We need kids—ours and others—to relate their success to their hard work, so they aren’t afraid of failing.”

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12 Best-Ever Outdoor Toys

September 1, 2014 by Kelley 3 Comments

As fall looms, retailers are trying to unload their outdoor gear to make way for school supplies and Halloween toy clearance signhoopla.  Translation: deep discounts, making now, counterintuitively, a great time to stock up on outdoor playthings, many of which can be used indoors during colder weather, too.

Keeping a big bin or two well-stocked with interesting active toys is one of the best things you can do to get and keep your kids off the couch from season to season—and this may be especially true for girls, research suggests. So I asked Curt Hinson, Ph.D, a HHK advisory board member, what would be his top picks for age-spanning, gender-neutral toys that are least likely to collect dust in your garage, porch, or basement. As “Dr. Recess,” Dr. Hinson travels around the country to help kids get moving during free playtime, and sees firsthand what toys children in a variety of different neighborhoods are apt to return to again and again. The good news is, his picks aren’t pricey. In fact, the simplest toys often have the longest shelf-life, he says.

So, without further ado, here’s a list of must-have outdoor toys, with links to examples and descriptions below. outdoor toy Collage-2

1. Sidewalk Chalk. Not just for doodles; create hopscotch game, ball or puck target, or an obstacle course for bikes or skateboards. BUY: Crayola 48-Count Sidewalk Chalk, $10

2. Frisbee/Flying Disc. Some fave uses: Tossing at targets (like trees) for points, or playing keep away. There are many variations to test out, but you can’t go wrong with a classic disc. Discraft has no less than 17 colors patterns, from “Ultra-Violet” to “Blue Orb.” BUY: Discraft 175 gram Ultra Star frisbee, $8-$18

3. Zoom Ball. A favorite of occupational therapists,  ball on two ropes with handles, and you send it back and forth to each other. It’s fun to see how far you can make it travel. BUY: Zoom Ball Sliding Ball, $8

4. Wiffle Ball Set. Picnic table is first base, the oak tree is second base, neighbor’s vegetable patch is a home run (you get it). Once your child masters hitting a ball with a skinny wiffle ball bat, making contact with a classic baseball or softball bat will feel much easier. BUY: Wiffle Ball Bat and Ball Set, $6

5. Soccer ball. Kick it back and forth, play keep away, or try to hit targets in a backyard obstacle. Size guidelines: Buy 1 (mini) ball for toddlers, size 3 for 3-5 year olds, size 4 for 6-8 year olds, and size 5 for older kids. BUY: Vizari Astro Soccer Ball, $6-$20

6. Jump rope. Simple, cheap, and a great workout. Count how many times your child can jump without stepping on the rope. BUY: Green Toys Jump Rope, $10

7. Horseshoes. This traditional backyard game is loads of fun for kids. Try a rubberized version for safety’s sake. BUY: Champion Sports Rubber Horseshoe Set, $14

8. Skip Toy. There’s a lot of versions, from the Skip It to the Skipper. Like a jump rope, it’s simple, but even trickier (in a fun way) for bigger kids. BUY: Skipper, $7.

9. Hula Hoop. An addicting challenge, once you get the hang of it. Little ones can roll and chase them, or hop between them, across driveways or gyms. Buy a few and the game options grow. BUY: Wham-O Original Hula Hoop, Set of 3, $35

10. Lawn Darts. The plastic kind with rounded tips are safest. Try to toss them in opponents’ ring for to score points. BUY: Jarts, $16

11. Bubbles. Want to get a little kid running around? Blow some bubbles and challenge them to count how many they can pop. BUY: Super Miracle Bubbles, with Wand, $4

12. Balloons. See who can keep an inflated balloon up the longest using different body parts, or race across the yard, hitting the balloon as you go. Playing balloon “volleyball” over a line of couch cushions can keep kids of all ages busy during  rainy or cold afternoon. Perhaps the king of all cheap, versatile toys, come to think of it. Fun Express Assorted Color Balloons, 144 for $7

Additional photo credits:

Hula Hoops: Elliot Mar

Zoom Ball: Unloveable

Frisbee: Annalisa

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Preseason Sports Reminder: Drink Up

August 17, 2014 by Kelley Leave a Comment

It’s around this time of summer that kids not only get back to school, but back to sports practice. For older children and teens, especially, preseason can be serious stuff: A time to prove their worth to coaches and teammates after time away. Unfortunately, this annual ritual of excitement, adrenaline and stiff competition takes place amid sweltering temperatures countrywide. It’s a pressure-cooker combo that can set the stage for dehydration, which has played a role in serious sports-related health scares, and even deaths, in recent years.

Photo by: Capt Kodak via photopin cc

Photo by: Capt Kodak via photopin cc

HHK advisory board members and moms Julie Kardos, M.D. and Naline Lai, M.D. have written extensively on the subject in their blog Two Peds in a Pod. They advise parents to think beyond just sending kids to practice with a loaded, easy-to-sip-from water bottle (which is of course important too). Kids should not only drink every 20 minutes during a sports activity, but sip from a water bottle throughout the day and up to an hour prior to it. Afterwards, the more competitive players who churn up a sweat should turn to electrolyte replenishers such as Gatorade and Powerade. Though the citric acids in these sports drinks can put kids at higher risk for cavities when swigged regularly, they can be extremely helpful when kids endure 20-30 minutes of sweating, which causes the body can lose more salt and sugar than is healthy.

Even more important is to equip your kids with knowledge about what dehydration feels like. “Because thirst does not always correlate with dehydration, children often misjudge their own hydration status,” says Dr. Lai. “Headache and nausea are some of the first symptoms kids should be aware of.” Arm them, too, with the good sense to ask a coach for a water break if they’re feeling lightheaded or “just not right,” says Dr. Lai. With proper hydration, they’ll come back even stronger in the next drill.

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How Siblings Influence Kids’ Weight

August 15, 2014 by Kelley Leave a Comment

Lending new meaning to the term “big brother”: A recent study of more than 10,000 families finds that siblings are even more powerful than parents when it comes to predicting kids’ weight. Having an obese brother or sister makes a child about five times more likely to be very heavy too, say the study’s researchers, from Massachusetts General Hopsital, Cornell, and Duke University.

Photo by: Johan Sunin via Flickr

Photo by: Johan Sunin via Flickr

There are some obvious potential explanations: Siblings grab snacks out of the same pantry, and usually sit down to the same meals. They often play together, in either sporty or sedentary ways. But the data suggests that some psychological factors may also play a role. Younger siblings are most influenced by an older sibling’s weight if that big brother or sister is the same sex. Kids really do model themselves after the elders closest to them, in so many ways.

So if one child is gaining more weight than is healthy, what can you do to help him—and in turn, his impressionable brothers and sisters? Rather overhauling the heavier child’s diet, take a close look at what you’re feeding the whole family, says Suzanne Rostler, R.D., a nutrition specialist in the Optimal Weight For Life (OWL) clinic at Boston Children’s Hospital, and co-author of Ending the Food Fight. “All family members should be eating in a healthy way, regardless of where they fall on the weight scale,” she says. While sibs may be the focus in this study, she adds, the onus is really on parents, not children, to set family food trends, such as eating mostly fresh, whole foods and limiting highly processed snack foods. (A good rule of thumb: If a snack food has the shelf life of years, it probably isn’t good for your body, regardless of fat and calorie content, Rostler says.) “These habits will trickle down to the oldest child, which will trickle down to younger children,” says Rostler. “And the more you can model good habits, rather than talk about them, the better. A lot of kids we see feel ‘the more you tell me to do this, the less I want to do it.'”

And what if one child has developed a newfound interest in a healthy habit, like eating fruit salads or riding bikes? Excellent: Encourage her to let her sib join in. “Just make sure you don’t frame it as, you (or your sister or brother) need to do this to lose weight,” says Rostler. “Food is emotional, and a comfort for many kids and adults too. If a child is feeling bad because of weight, you risk making them turn to food to feel better, and the cycle continues.”

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Family Fitness Ideas: Beach Games

August 14, 2014 by Kelley Leave a Comment

family beachAs August wanes, and the days get shorter and a frenetic fall schedule looms, we’re trying to eke out as as many beach days as we can. Of course, the concept of “beach day” has changed a bit from the pre-kid era of lounge chairs, paperbacks and people watching. Between the sunscreening and swim policing, being at the beach can feel like work when you’re a parent.

But once I stopped thinking about the beach as “me” time and more as family time, I’ve embraced the chaos, and see the beach as a precious time to play with my kids in a way that genuinely interests me a lot more than, say, floor time in February. There’s tag, sandcastle building, shelling, and of course body surfing. But there’s also an opportunity to play some really fun, active games that get the whole family into the mix. (And, bonus: Since running on sand expends 1.6 times the energy as running on a hard surface, your legs and butt can get an awesome workout out of the deal.)

HHK advisory board member Curt Hinson, Ph.D., who designs heart-pumping games for kids on a variety of surfaces, has shared his two fave, easy beach games, which involve little more than a couple balls and a couple kids. All you need to throw in your beach bag—along with the snacks, sunscreen, and the 16 broken buckets collected over years—is a basic beach ball and a soccer ball of any size. Check it out:

Photo by: Gareth Williams

BEACH BALL “HACKEY SACK”

Ages: 6 and up

Number of players: 3-6

Most of us parents remember hackey sack from the 90s. Well, this is a beach ball version, and a lot easier, and more fun.

Three-to-six players stand in a circle. One player starts the game by striking the ball up in the air with a hand. Whomever the ball comes to must hit the ball back up into the air, keeping it in the circle. If a person doesn’t keep the ball in the air when it comes his/her way or hits it outside of the circle, he/she receives a letter B. Play until one player has spelled the word B-E-A-C-H, and then everyone’s letters are erased and the game starts over.

 

BEACH SOCCER-GOLF

Photo by: Kevin Gong

 Ages: 3 and up

Number of players: 2 or more

This soccer/golf/Bocce ball hybrid is easily adaptable to a variety of ages and number of kids.

Dig two holes in the sand about 15-20 feet apart. (Distance should be closer for littler tykes.) Each hole should be about twice the diameter of the ball being used and about 6-10 inches deep. Two players stand opposite each other, each at one of the holes. The first player kicks the ball in the sand towards the other player’s hole. If the ball roles in the hole, the kicker gets one point. The other player kicks the ball back, trying to get it into the other hole. The game continues, and the first player with 10 points wins and a new game starts. You can also play with three players in a triangle, four players in a square, or any even number of players on two teams.

 

 

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